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They have had some freak-outs, but they've so far been able to talk each other down off the ledge. They've developed a good support network here in Arkansas as well, which will help. Mostly, however, they believe that, given how hard it was to get pregnant, they will not sweat the small stuff.
"There were times when I thought I was just too selfish to have kids," Gerry said. "But I realized as I got older that it is something that I'm so looking forward to doing. Waiting is going to make me appreciate every single moment more. So I'll tell them now, for when they're older, 'If I hover too much, it's because I want to remember every single moment.' "
"We really want them to know just how much we love each other, and how much they're loved and wanted," Jennifer said.
"We built up 13 years of solid rock to make sure that when they get older, they'll never see us fighting," Gerry added. "They'll never see us disagree in front of them. We're going to be a tag team. ... We've had 13 years to build that foundation."