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Re: “Stop the violence

Physical punishment of children sometimes causes welts and bruises which eventually heal. But it also causes another kind of injury - one that never heals. Lost trust. When trust between children and their closest caretakers is damaged, the children's ability to form trusting relationships with others is also damaged. People who have been injured this way tend to see all relationships as negotiations, as deals to be won or lost. They are always on guard. They see honesty and trustfulness in others as weaknesses to be exploited exactly as it was once done to them. They tend to see the world as an extension of their childhood environment – a dangerous place in which the best protection against being a victim is to become a victimizer.

Posted by JordanRiak on 07/19/2010 at 8:13 PM

Re: “Stop the violence

Physical punishment of children sometimes causes welts and bruises which eventually heal. But it also causes another kind of injury - one that never heals. Lost trust. When trust between children and their closest caretakers is damaged, the children's ability to form trusting relationships with others is also damaged. People who have been injured this way tend to see all relationships as negotiations, as deals to be won or lost. They are always on guard. They see honesty and trustfulness in others as weaknesses to be exploited exactly as it was once done to them. They tend to see the world as an extension of their childhood environment – a dangerous place in which the best protection against being a victim is to become a victimizer.

Posted by JordanRiak on 07/19/2010 at 8:11 PM

 

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